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1. Change Your Beliefs to Get Rid of Negative Thoughts Negative thoughts don’t operate alone. They have an ally- something that gives them the confidence to attack you. That ally is your beliefs. No matter how hard you may try to change those negative thoughts into positive ones, if your beliefs are negative, being positive might be hard. If you believe that your house would be robbed one day, no matter how much you say, “my house is free from burglars”, you’ll always be scared to death whenever you hear your window creak. And you definitely can’t be a happy person, knowing that you could be robbed at anytime. If everyone around you has a common negative belief about something, let yours be different. You don’t have to shout it out loud so that everyone will hear it (I wouldn’t advise you to do that). But know it, deep down in your heart. 2. Ignore Your Beliefs to Clear Your Mind Changing your beliefs can be hard, especially when you grew up having that belief. The statement, “you ca

Set a realistic but challenging/inspiring goal. Take a big dream, like "I want to be famous", and break it down into smaller, more manageable steps, like "I want to star in a science fiction movie", "I want to go to three auditions a week", "I want to move to another city" and "I want to save $5000 so I can move." Make the goal big enough to challenge and excite you, but not so big that you hesitate to take the first steps. Plan ahead. Once you've broken down your goal into pieces, write down the steps on a piece of paper to make sure you have everything thought out. One of the worst things that can happen is you're almost to the point of your goal, but you're not sure what to do next. Also, give yourself deadlines for each step. Otherwise, you'll end up procrastinating and never achieving your dream. Brainstorm ideas. Are there different ways to reach your goal? Write everything down that you can think of in three m

(1) Never think or speak negatively about yourself; that puts you in disagreement with God. (2) Meditate on your God-given strengths and learn to encourage yourself, for much of the time nobody else will. (3) Don't compare yourself to anybody else. You're unique, one of a kind, an original. So don't settle for being a copy. (4) Focus on your potential, not your limitations. Remember, God lives in you! (5) Find what you like to do, do well, and strive to do it with excellence. (6) Have the courage to be different. Be a God pleaser, not a people pleaser. (7) Learn to handle criticism. Let it develop you instead of discourage you. (8) Determine your own worth instead of letting others do it for you. They'll short-change you! (9) Keep your shortcomings in perspective - you're still a work in progress.... (10) Focus daily on your greatest source of confidence - the God Who lives in you

Trust yourself You know what you want and need . Put yourself first . You can't be anything for anybody else unless   you take care of yourself. Let your feelings be known . They are important. Express your opinions . It's good to hear yourself talk. Value your thinking . You do it well. Take the time   and space you need. Even if other people are wanting something from you. When you need something , don't talk yourself out of it. Even if you can't have it, it's ok to need. When you are scared , let someone know. Isolating yourself when you're scared makes it worse. When you feel like running away , let yourself feel the scare. Think about what you fear will happen   and   decide what you need to do. When you're angry , let yourself feel the anger. Decide what you want to do.   Just feel it, express it, or take some action. When you're sad , think about what would be comforting. When you're h

A true quote: if silence is meant to be the best for all situations...then why we all get so hurt when people don't talk to us?? ************************************************************************************ one of the very true & greatest illusions of life is that.... "we always believe there is more time in tomorrow then today" ************************************************************************************ we work for making better tomorrow but when tomorrow comes instead of enjoying again we start thinking for better tomorrow. thts life ************************************************************************************ when we were small we laughed less but there was infinite hidden happiness as we grow up we learn to laugh more to hide the unspoken sadness ************************************************************************************* perfect pearl: rememeber that no one will understand you perfectly in life jus

With so many of us spending lots of time in front of the computer every day it comes to no surprise that research is showing a rise in visual problems. What can one do? First, it’s important to find out how you can protect your eyes through eye health exams and by making a few minor changes in your computer viewing habits. Here are some helpful Eye Care Tips - Positioning is everything Correct positioning of your computer, keyboard and typing copy is essential. Your screen should be positioned about an arm’s length from your eyes and 20 degrees below eye level. Consider foot and wrist rests for added comfort. Lighting can make all the difference Room lighting should be diffuse, not direct, to reduce glare and reflections from your screen. Look into an internal or external glare screen and be sure to set your colour, contrast and brightness levels to suit you. A little extra help for your glasses Anti-reflective coatings on the lenses of your glasses can be applied by your optometrist

1. Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully. 2. Memorize your favorite poem. 3. Don't believe all you hear, don't spend all you have, or don't sleep all you want. 4. When you say, "I love you", mean it. 5. When you say, "I'm sorry", look the person in the eye. 6. Be engaged at least six months before you get married. 7. Believe in love at first sight. 8. Never laugh at anyone's dreams. 9. Love deeply and passionately. You might get hurt but it's the only way to live life completely. 10. In disagreements, fight fairly. No name calling. 11. Don't judge people by their relatives. 12. Talk slowly, but think quickly. 13. When someone asks you a question you don't want to answer, smile and ask, "Why do you want to know?" 14. Remember that great love and great achievements involve great risk. 15. Call a friend and tell them you were thinking about them. 16. Say "bless you" when you hear someon

Avoid Negative Thoughts, People, Things and Habits. Believe in yourself. Consider things from every angle and others points of view. Dare to Dream and Dream Big Energy, Excitement and Enthusiaism is in your blood. Family and Friends are hidden treasures ; enjoy these riches. Give more than you planned to. Have a good sense of humour. Ignore Critisism, Ridicule and Discouragement from others. Jump on Problems because they are Opportunities in disguise. Keep up the good work however hard it may seem. Love yourself, just as you are. Make Impossibility a Possibility. Never lie, cheat or steal, always strike a fair deal... Open your eyes and see things as they really are. Prefect Practice makes you perfect. Quitters never Win and Winners never Quit. Reward yourself for every small success and achievement. Stop Wasting your Time and Procrastinating important Goals. Take control of your Life and your Goals. Understand so that you could Understood. Vis